Christmas 24-25 Dec 2008

Its been as long as 8 years since we last celebrate Christmas today. We celebrate with a whole company of people 8 years ago at his house..haha..still deep in our memories..Thats our 1st Christmas..3 years ago we got together and haven't had the chance to celebrate it together each year..This year is an exception. Finally he no need to work! And the best part is it's unplanned. it's so last minute..Although i know it myself that he did not plan it deliberately to accompany me but at least we are together on Christmas. I am already glad for that. I received a message from him around 5pm that he would accompany me to Orchard as I commented before that he has never accompany me to Orchard on Xmas. I rejected as I know that it will be damn crowded!

He suggested going to the movies..I'm thrilled as he finally take the initiation to plan! We went for dinner at Newton Circles as I missed the grilled food!! We patronise the same stall - Good Man Grill & Seafood. Next we went to The Cathay as we have never been to one of the cinema " Grand Cathay"..haha.. So I bought tickets for " Twilight" at 12am..what a timing..

Went to Plaza Singapura as it's still early..Got some shots..

Birth of Jesus Christ

Mehhhh

Had Ben & Jerry Icecream as well while waiting but no shots of that..

After movie,we went back home and as we walked home, he handed me a beautifully wrapped box..wat a surprise as I never thought that I will have a pressie from him as its been some time since we last exchange gifts and i did not prepare for him as well.. Happy..The poor bear has been in the boot for 2 days!

Unwrapped the pressie at home as he keep commenting how expensive the box & ribbons are..haha..very typical of him..But after I know the price of the box, I flipped! It's $18 for a damn box!! Although it's harder that usual box, it's gold with shimmering but I still think it's exhorbitant!

I guessed my pressie correctly haha..A Tatty Bear in Pink!

I seldom love bears but this is exception as it has a patch on the left side of the head.

Thanks Dear..Looking forward to more Xmas spent with you..Love ya..

Me ?? You ??

Do i really know you well enough? Do you know me well enough as well?

These questions have been on my mind for some time and i finally have my answers today.

These few days have been a struggle to me but obviously a breeze to you. I have nothing much to say to you now because i am really amazed by the questions that you bombarded me as I finally realised from the questions how much you understand me.

I dun deny that some of your assumptions are right but i really dun like the way you are handling things.. Apology for the wrong reason is not the way to close a case, it is just avoidance and i admit that its my fault for not telling you the reason of me being angry. But its because, when i tell you we will have an argument, if i dun tell you, things like this happened. We can never have a peaceful talk! Its always arguments with raised voice and not TALK! I am so sick of it thats why i chose not to tell you things that i dislike anymore. I am not accepting the things that i dislike from you just that i chose to voice my anger by being silent! why i adopt this way? Cause I wan a TALK not an argument!! So if this can't be materialised, i rather shut up and dun talk about it!

I remembered telling you before i have high expectations of my partner and you accepted the challenge and after 3 years this is what I get. I dun deny i can see changes from you and i also dun deny "No one is perfect". I have my flaws too..But..

3 years have passed and more issues are popping out from us..i cant help but ask myself :
Are we really meant to be??

A Letter to All Men

To: All Men Reading my blog

Have you ever thought that why women are tempermental at times ?

Because : It depends on what you did!!!

Please do not assume that all women are stupid and easily fooled. In fact we are watching you all the time its that you are not aware..( women are good in that)
Things that you do will directly affect our mood.

E.g: why can't we wear our favourite dress although its revealing?We have the asset to flaunt! Its every guy's phrase that they do not want to expose us to other guys..BUT how about when you are ogling at other gals??Have you ever thought of how their partner felt when you are eyeing on their gf's revealing cleavage or ultra short mini skirt with the intention to see what is beneath??
So women thinking that since men like to see women in those outfit, might as well they wore it and let their partner see! Sad to say...men like the excitement of seeing something forbidden than something that is easily available! I do not deny that scientifically proven its in every men's genes that you are programmed to look at women at all times..BUT we women are programmed to detect that as well! Heaven is fair..So please do not think that things that you do will go undetected!

Another Classic Example: Feign Ignorance

Please do not feign ignorance infront of us! We can see it right through you just that we give you the benefit of doubt! If you dare to do it, Admit it!! I do not deny that women feign ignorance at times as well.